What does your sexy lingerie say about you?

What does your sexy lingerie say about you? Well, first of all do you even wear sexy lingerie in the bedroom? If the answer is no then it says how adventurous you are or aren't. Wearing sexy lingerie suggests you think about your romantic life ahead of time, or plan how you are going to look and feel in the bedroom. If you are wearing panties and a t-shirt then you are concerned more about comfort than about appearances. There is absolutely nothing wrong with that but you can't deny that this says something about you. What it says is not necessarily negative but a statement is being made nonetheless.

Think about it this way. A man who doesn't shave or shower every day could be said to be unstructured, care free and a man who cares more about what he does rather than how he looks or even smells. Is that a negative statement? Well, you decide. A man who grooms himself every morning, shaves, puts some product in his hair and wears fashionable, clean clothes, maybe brushes his teeth and maybe even wears cologne. Who would you rather spend an evening with at a local restaurant?

The point is that it matters and it does say something about you. Does that mean that a woman must wear sexy lingerie every night? Hopefully not! Sexy lingerie is intended to make a statement about a woman, how she feels about herself and also how she feels about the man in her life. Is it easy? No, unfortunately not really. C'mon, lets face it, getting all dolled up in some very revealing night wear that shows off her body in all its splendor. This at a time when you are tired, sleepy and stressed out after a day of kids, work and well, stress. Easy it isn't. So what is a girl to do. Well, perhaps all she needs do is realize that it says something about her, what she wears to bed. If it says something about what she or he wears to work, then it really does matter what she wears to bed. Ignore it at your own risk.

Is that a threat? No and yes! Relationships at work matter, relationships at home matter as well. Most of us would never dare show up at work in pajama pants and our hair in curlers. Most men would not show up at work in his U Conn t-shirt with stains and holes in it to his job with some underwear with holes in it and so on. You get the message. Sure you might consider one to be more important that the other. But if you do, consider what it says about you.

Sexy lingerie is a statement maker all right as either a man or woman who takes the time to get dressed and spends the time grooming themselves is likely a special person in his or her relationship. The examples used in this article may be a bit obvious but the point is the same. A matched bra and panty set sends a specific message that a woman cares about how she looks. It is not an accident that women and men in the movies are dressed in matching bra sets and thigh high stockings and perhaps some high heels. But even though most if not almost all women choose to take their stockings and high heels off before sex, the effect can be arousing. A womans body looks hot naked but can be even more effective with a push up bra and some well fitting panties, stockings as well. The next time you are getting ready for bed, think about what your night wear says about you. Is it the message you really want to send?

When did you start wearing sexy lingerie?

Since wearing intimate apparel like lingerie is usually not discussed in polite company it is difficult to say who, what, when and where about the subject. Sexy lingerie is designed to be worn in private places between two adults and by and large the rest is up to girls and women to learn on their own. That talk between mom and daughter may or may not ever get to the subject of the wheres and whys of wearing sexy lingerie. So what is a girl to do, or should I say woman. Most of us would agree that girls are not to be wearing sexy lingerie but that truly depends on what age we call a girl a girl and when we call her a woman. In this day and age of awareness and freedoms it can be a bizarre array of what is appropriate and what is not appropriate. A married 19 year old girl is her daddys little girl and a mans wife, all at the same time. A sixteen year old girl is a girl, even if she were married. In our culture that would certainly be too young to be married but not in all cultures, to be sure. So are we any closer to the answer to the question, When did you start wearing sexy lingerie? I think not! Some might say, when a girl gets married is a time to start wearing sexy lingerie. Others might wonder in this day of a Miley Cyrus oddly and uniquely touching herself before a many million people audience as to whether that age doesn't start far earlier. Does it matter? Since wearing sexy lingerie is a private matter does it matter when a girl starts wearing sexy lingerie? Since it is a private matter the answer is surely no, it doesnt matter. A girl can buy sexy lingerie at virtually any age I suppose. She can always say it is for a gift, for her mother, sister or older girl friend. But does the sales clerk even have a right in inquire as to who that sexy piece of clothing is for? Probably not as there are no age limitations anyone has to be to purchase suggestive intimate apparel. But does that not fly directly in the face of those good people who are honestly and deservedly concerned about human trafficking or the slave/sex trade? If society felt it was enough of a problem then they would place restrictions on the age of purchasers of sexy lingerie, right?

There are those who might say this is a silly, frivilous article as girls know when to start wearing sexy lingerie. They and they alone can decide for themselves at what age they should be sexually active, or at the very least that is up to their parents or guardians. If nothing else it bears considering as a girl of 17 today is far more mature than one of say 50 years ago, right? Or does it matter. I think it does as our society is evolving and many complain devolving. Are we progressing or regressing? Does what a girl wears to bed alone or with someone else matter? Should it be a matter of public policy? Should government be involved in what goes on in a private bedroom? What goes on between consenting adults is one thing, but what about a girl and a guy. What about a 16 year old girl and a 17 year old guy? Don't think the problem doesn't exist as it certainly does. In an age where teachers are charged and often found guilty of engaging in sexual activity with a minor, perhaps we have only seen the proverbial tip of the iceberg. Perhaps the reader can dismiss the question as the issue never came up for them. But when did you start wearing sexy lingerie? Is the question a harmless one or one that requires more than a passing thought? Clearly I don't have any answers, but if clothing says anything about a person, and I believe it does, what a woman wears to bed is both her business and depending on her age, the business of others. I just don't really know when that age is and who should be deciding it.

The next logical question goes to sexy costumes. Wearing sexy costumes at Halloween parties and public gatherings is common place. Guys wear costumes, while girls wear sexy costumes. Flirty Lingerie, www.flirtylingerie.com, has sold these costumes for many years and interest is still high among our customers. While many are flirty and fun, others are fairly revealing and suggestive. Only in fun, we think so, but many parents have raised objections, while others accompany their children or young girls to buy the products. Are we training our young girls to wear revealing clothing or simply allowing them to socialize in an age appropriate manner? Sex is part of life, right? It seems whether we like it, encourage it or not the society seems to agree that this is appropriate or at least allowable behavior. Healthy or not the trend seems to be here to stay. Twerking, and all!

Buying Crotchless Lingerie for your Lover

If you are buying crotchless lingerie for your lover then there are a number of things to keep in mind. Buying crotchless lingerie for your lover, wife or girlfriend sends a very distinct message to her and perhaps that is your intent. Regardless we offer some ideas to make the gift and resultant evening a big hit.

There are few gifts that a man can give a woman that suggest romance and sex other than crotchless lingerie and the more you know the better off you will both be. First of all crotchless and open crotch are often interchangable but you are safer asking exactly what does the site or store mean when they say crotchless. Logic would indicate that the two terms are interchangable but they aren't. Open crotch is often used to described where the front of the panty or other garment is open but for the ribbons of material in front that expose the front of a woman's vaginal area but it is not completely open. Thus the ribbon has to be untied or the garment was not intended to be able to be used for forplay or such.

Also some open crotch or crotchless items are more open than others so one needs to determine the degree to which the garment is open before assuming that it will allow a penis, vibrator or other item without tearing. Some crotchless items are more practical is all I am saying and practicality is up to the consumer.

So what is the reason for crotchless garments anyway? Is it just for sex, duh? Or is there another reason or reasons? Actually the other reason is the primary reason for crotchless garments, or at least some of them. Keep in mind that crotchless or open crotch have been around for some time in bodystockings . Bodystockings are those one piece leotard type garments that have a head to toe design and going to the ladies room often requires a woman to get totally undressed. Well, now isn't that inconvenient? Of course it is and without the open crotch many to most women would not wear the bodystocking. Who can blame them? Thus convenience, known as using the rest room conveniently wins the day!

Other garments are crotchless for other reasons and they generally have to do with sex or romance or just being a little bit naughty. Derided by many as why buy a garment with a hole in it, crotchless garments are definitely not for everyone, are they? But they certainly are very popular with virtually every lingerie manufacturer getting in on the market. From panties to lingerie crotchless is one hot property. Buy one, wear it and whisper into your guys ear that you are wearing "crotchless panties" and see if it doesn't change the whole tenor of the evening.

Creme Blanc, Lingerie, Romance and Dating Tips!

Creme Blanc is white cream, decadent and indulgent while lingerie is much the same. Then there is romance and dating, two subjects that believe it or not go with the white cream and lingerie. So when I decided what to name my blog I decided that Creme Blanc was an ideal name. No it is not about food as creme blanc is often used in association with creme brulee'or other sweet food items. My blog is about what I like and that is reading about and seeing images of sexy lingerie and hearing what I can do to improve my romance as well as picking up dating tips! What I like says a lot about me and in this way the blog is not at all limited in what I write about. Since I like creme blanc I also don't like other things like cauliflower or brussel sprouts. I do like photographs, beautiful people, architecture and movies. I am kind of eclectic, I enjoy off beat humor and politics, but less and less.


Perhaps my inspiration is the old Herb Alpert and the Tijuana Brass album picturing a naked girl who has whipped cream all over her body. You could only make out the outlines of her breast and nothing else really yet is left an impression on me.

The songs were kinda old school, instruments only and very sexy and that is sort of a guide for the blog. See what you think?

Sexy Lingerie and Sexy Clothes are an Exhibitionists Dream

Sexy lingerie and sexy clothes are an exhibitionists dream and generally worn in the bedroom while sexy clothes are worn in public. Whether you are looking for sexy clothes or sexy lingerie you need to consider the exhibitionist in you and a few things to make looking sexy virtually effortless while sending the message you really want to send. Reserved for private moments sexy lingerie is an ideal way to express a woman's sexuality as what a woman chooses to wear in intimate moments is a form of self expression. Sexy clothes though is an opportunity to show off your sexy self in public, revealing yourself where anyone can see you in sexy mini skirts, mini dresses and revealing tops.



Sexy lingerie comes in so many forms it is a challenge to know where to begin. Is there a difference between lingerie and sexy lingerie? Yes and no as like beauty it is in the eye of the beholder. Lingerie is a broader category encompassing all underwear, sexy and not so sexy. A pair of nude full back panties would likely not qualify as sexy lingerie, but would definitely qualify as lingerie. A pair of silk pajamas would likely not qualify as sexy lingerie but would make the cut as lingerie.

Lingerie can be synonomous with women's undergarments and much of the unmentionables are far from sexy. Suffice it to say that while some would argue that any garment that a woman wears under her clothing is sexy, the standard is a bit higher that that.

Lingerie is such a fun and sexy subject one could spend all day discussing all the styles, design houses and brands made world wide. Instead we will spend a moment on the more popular styles in this female driven line. We will leave foundations, everyday lingerie such as bras and full back panties to another day. Sexy lingerie like a sheer stretch babydoll or sheer black babydoll makes for snug fitting, body slimming lingerie that women love to wear and men love to see women wear.

Since the 1940's and 50's sexy babydolls have been all the rage. Very revealing, flirty and fun, babydolls were often made of sheer fabric that hid little and offered a feminine look heretofore not seen.