Monday, October 19, 2009

Wearing Sexy Mini Skirts after 40!






Wearing sexy mini skirts after 40 is a practice I encourage as 40 is the new 50!If you are wearing mini skirts after 40 then you have probably turned some heads and probably enjoyed the attention as well. Some fashion "gurus" suggest that women should wear age appropriate clothing and women 40 and over should not dare go past that magic age and wear sexy clothing at such an "advanced" age. Also you should not be a "cougar" which is an older women who looks sexy and wears suggestive or sexy clothing after she is past her prime.

I admit I am of two mind when it comes to women wearing sexy clothes when they are grandmothers. My fashion side suggests that women should dress like women and girls can dress however they like. This is not to say that a girl can violate all standards of good taste and decorum but they certainly have the body to wear short skirts, tight tops and many other items that a woman in her 40's might consider avoiding. But is it the age or the condition of the wearer that decides what a woman should wear. Here is where I part with many of the fashionistas as I firmly believe a woman can and should wear whatever her body allows. This "fashion" side emerged from my mother giving such sage advice as "be sure you are wearing clean underwear in case you get in an accident. While this is good advice it also suggested not to wear white after labor day or nice girls don't wear high heels. This is the same as the advice that suggested I not wear false eyelashes or dye my hair blonde.





My other side suggests that I dress in in what I want, when I want as I am an adult. While there are extremely good reasons to follow fashion mom, I am not in love with the idea that I am in total agreement with the fashion lords and ladies. Sure I watch Project Runway and listen to every word Heidi Klum and Michael Kors as well as Nina Garcia has to say. I generallly agree with their professional opinion, but certainly not always. I tend to dress sexier than I should without being vulgar as that is creepy but have been known to go out without panties, wears 4-5 inch heels although they hurt my feet and love sexy bras and panties.

So should women wear sexy mini skirts after 40? Yes, Yes and Yes!First of all I love the looks from men and enjoy some of the looks women give me as I am sure they are not always complimentary. Am I in perfect shape? No, not really but I am not unattractive, and I try to stay in shape.Does it matter? Yes and no but I am not certain that should be the criteria. Could I wear full length mumus? Sure as I could wear pants which I hate, full length dresses which I detest or skorts which are simply horrid? I chose to wear sexy before sedate, seductive before dull and suggestive before matronly. No I am not one of those persons who loves spandex everything although a bit of spandex in a top is far better than cotton t-shirts that make every woman look sloppy!




While not everyone would agree, Michael, Nina and Heidi, lets not forget that in fashion one day you are in and the next day you are out! B.S. out here in reality fashion is somewhat important but be honest, take a look around. Women certainly more than men are concerned about fashion to a point. But is buying fake bags on Canal Street in N.Y. being fashion conscious? Is shopping at Abercrombie and Fitch being a slave to fashion. Haute couture is splendid but unattainable by most as well as irrelevant. I would much rather women make an occasional fashion faux pax than wear some of the ridiculous items on many runways that serve women little other than lining the pockets of some fashion designer.

Monday, May 25, 2009

Make your own Sexy School Girl Costume



Make your own sexy school girl costume is easy, fun and you can make the exact sexy school girl costume you desire. Make you own costume takes a little more time but it can be well worth it as you will have the skirt, top and accessories you want. Women often have bigger butts or breasts than a one size fits most costume will fit and most sites and stores don't let you mix and match. So why not make your own sexy school girl costume and have it look and fit perfectly? While you can always buy your own sexy school girl costume you may want to consider making your own costume. Often women come into our store and purchase a school girl costume pre packaged and that is great. Other times they put it together with the skirt they want and choose one of our tie front crop tops that they prefer.

Sexy mini skirts are one of the basics of a sexy school girl outfit although school girl skirts are nowhere this short. Wearing a sexy skirt means wearing a short perhaps tight mini skirt and the options are great when it comes to short skirt.




Most school girl skirts are plaid pleated mini skirts in red, green and often pink or blue plaid. We arent' done yet as we need knee high or thigh high stockings opaque thigh high stockings to complete the look.
Stockings are an essential part of the costume and a small thing like stockings really complete the innocent yet sexy school girl. There is only one thing left to purchase and that is her shoes.



These sexy platform shoes have a high platform but the combination of the rounded toe and ankle straps combine to make this the perfect look for the conflicted school girl. On the one hand she is hot and sexy while on the other hand she is still daddy's girl.

Sunday, April 5, 2009

Women Love Sexy Panties and so do Men!



Women love sexy panties for a lot of reasons and men love them for a lot of different reasons. Women love sexy panties as they make them look hot and desirable as well as fit like they almost aren't there. Men, on the other hand love the look, feel and just about everything else about a woman in her very sexy underwear. Sexy Panties come in many shapes, colors and forms but one thing is for sure, panties have to be one of the widely appreciated garment for women in history. Panties can be described as thongs, g strings or even boyshorts , but sexy panties have something extra that causes them to be described as sexy rather than the mundane term - panties or even worse, underwear.




So what makes panties sexy? Is it the color, the cut or perhaps the way they look or feel? Truth is it is all these things and more. A sexy thong panty makes a girl look and feel sexy and that isn't accomplished just by wearing some cloth under your skirt or jeans. That just right mix of the right design, material, cut and display makes a thong panty sexy, and not just any panty qualifies.





Stretch cotton panties or thongs are a place to start as they are feminine, skimpy and comfortable. Women of all ages and sizes love these panties as they fit fine, look great and wear for a very long time. Add to that they come in girly colors like baby pink, baby blue and of course, black and you have a potential sexy panty contender.


Sexy Mini Dresses

Sexy mini dresses are sexy dresses that are mini dresses as they are short and sexy. Sexy mini dresses are preferred by women who go to clubs and want to dance and look hot at the same time. These are not the dresses you wear to church, a Sunday social or work in a corporate environment. If you want one of those dresses simply look under dull, boring and floral. Harsh? Not really! Sexy mini dresses are for girls who want to be seen and show off all those hours in the gym. If you want to be in a wall flower dress, stay home, watch reruns of Miami CSI or download your favorite songs off of the internet.

Sexy mini dresses make a statement and the statement is "I am hot and sexy" and it is not a secret. Here are a few of the latest sexy mini dresses.




The Clubwear mini dress is a sexy low cut front stretch mini dress with a low cut front and spaghetti straps. Available in 15 colors this sexy mini dress stretches and clings to your curves so you won't want to take it off. Be sure to be ready for the stares and whistles that come with it at no extra charge.

Looking for something a little more subtle, then the mini dress with gold chains is the sexy mini dress for you.

Sexy Mini Skirts, Sexy Club Wear since the 1960's





Sexy mini skirts arrived in America in the early 1960's and have been making women look sexy and men look. The sexy mini skirt doesn't really require the word sexy to be attached as anyone can figure that out simply by looking at a woman wearing one and determine that for themselves. Controversy has followed the simple and short skirts as they are so short that a woman's legs are exhibited from the thigh to almost her panties and often those are on display. Perhaps it was inevitable that short skirts would be invented but who will actually wear them?


A recent survery showed that a skirts length increases slightly between the ages of 23 and 27, rising to 37 cm, possibly due to girls being in their first stable relationship, with no desire to attract attention.
However, it found short skirts suddenly zoom in popularity between the ages of 27 and 34, as those early relationships break down, and new relationships are formed.

The move into longer skirts begins irreversibly at 40 years old, when 46-cm skirts, still slightly above the knee are the norm. From then on, skirt length increases dramatically, falling below the knee for the very first time since school days at the age of 42.

The results show that it has jumped from an average age of 36-years-old at the start of millennium to 40 today. Figures from 1980 showed that on average women stopped buying minis when they reached 33 years old -- a figure unchanged from the mid-1960s.

The survey that experts believe that the popularity of intensive gym culture, providing women with well toned bodies for longer may be the reason.
Source: Reuters

Mini skirts and micro mini skirts are what a man means when he says "put something sexy on and let's go out!" Sexy tight and short skirts offers a long look at a girl's legs and offer multiple accessory options and they go just about anywhere. Sexy mini skirts are always in fashion no matter what you hear or read. Sexy has never, ever gone out of fashion although some would have you believe they have.

Check out some of the sexiest mini skirts you will find!



Sexy school mini skirts are and perhaps always will be the rage. Typically school girl mini skirts are short, tight and pleated plaid. They are flirty, naughty but thats ok because school girls wear them, right?

Next on the long hit parade is the Jean mini skirt that started in the sixties and has survived because it is an iconic wardrobe that every, I said every girl should have at least one of in her closet. The mini jean skirt had very humble beginnings as a pair of scissors, a pair of Levi jeans and voila you have a mini skirt that oozes sexy and flirty! From those inauspicious beginnings 40 plus years later the jean skirt, particularly the jean mini skirt is alive and doing great.



Plaid can often be too much on a blouse, dress and such, but a Plaid pleated mini skirt is the perfect combination of splashes of color in a traditional mixture with pleats making this sexy plaid pleated mini one for the ages.

Crop Tops - Sexy Clubwear



Sexy tops are a girl's best friend when going to a club our out for the evening. Here is a look at some of the new and sexy trendy tops for girls at Flirty Lingerie. Our Sexy low cut top cuts low and deep on the bust and has a handkerchief hem. This sexy top comes in 15 colors so it will go with everything in your wardrobe.

How about one of our very sexy crop tops or even better a tie front crop top? The tie front short sleeve blouse is a sexy school girl top that matches our school girl skirts.


The tie front crop top ties at the bust, covers just enough and comes with short sleeves. It has an embroidered emblem that sets it off as a school girl top. Looking for something just a little differant? Try our crop top with ruffles that looks a bit more feminine, as though the others don't scream "sexy woman" all day long.



While these sexy tops aren't for every girl, they will fit virtually every girl as they are completely adjustable with the front tie that lets you show off as much or as little cleavage as you dare. The sexy tube top comes in 15 colors and can be worn alone, under a blouse or however you choose.

Wednesday, April 1, 2009

Sexy Lingerie and Sexy Clothes are an Exhibitionists Dream

Sexy lingerie and sexy clothes are an exhibitionists dream and generally worn in the bedroom while sexy clothes are worn in public. Whether you are looking for sexy clothes or sexy lingerie you need to consider the exhibitionist in you and a few things to make looking sexy virtually effortless while sending the message you really want to send. Reserved for private moments sexy lingerie is an ideal way to express a woman's sexuality as what a woman chooses to wear in intimate moments is a form of self expression. Sexy clothes though is an opportunity to show off your sexy self in public, revealing yourself where anyone can see you in sexy mini skirts, mini dresses and revealing tops.



Sexy lingerie comes in so many forms it is a challenge to know where to begin. Is there a difference between lingerie and sexy lingerie? Yes and no as like beauty it is in the eye of the beholder. Lingerie is a broader category encompassing all underwear, sexy and not so sexy. A pair of nude full back panties would likely not qualify as sexy lingerie, but would definitely qualify as lingerie. A pair of silk pajamas would likely not qualify as sexy lingerie but would make the cut as lingerie.

Lingerie can be synonomous with women's undergarments and much of the unmentionables are far from sexy. Suffice it to say that while some would argue that any garment that a woman wears under her clothing is sexy, the standard is a bit higher that that.

Lingerie is such a fun and sexy subject one could spend all day discussing all the styles, design houses and brands made world wide. Instead we will spend a moment on the more popular styles in this female driven line. We will leave foundations, everyday lingerie such as bras and full back panties to another day. Sexy lingerie like a sheer stretch babydoll or sheer black babydoll makes for snug fitting, body slimming lingerie that women love to wear and men love to see women wear.


Since the 1940's and 50's sexy babydolls have been all the rage. Very revealing, flirty and fun, babydolls were often made of sheer fabric that hid little and offered a feminine look heretofore not seen.